Journal of Me

What to Do When Your Brain is Faster Than Your Pen

Ever feel like your thoughts are a runaway train and your pen is stuck at thestation? This isn't a failure of focus. It's a mismatch of tools. Here's why speaking your thoughts might be the answer to calming the spiral and capturing your ideas as they truly are.

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You have an idea. Or maybe just a feeling. You grab a notebook and a pen, ready to get it out. You start writing the first sentence. But by the time you're halfway through, your brain is already three paragraphs ahead. New connections are firing. Counterarguments are appearing. The original thought has already morphed into something else entirely.

Now you're stuck. Do you try to capture the new thought? Do you finish the old one? The friction is immense. Your hand can’t keep up. The page looks like a mess of half-finished sentences and corrections. Soon the initial clarity is gone, replaced by a tangled mess. It feels like you failed to do something simple. You just wanted to write down a thought.

This experience is common. It’s not a defect in your thinking process. The problem isn't you. It's the tool.

The Bottleneck of Writing

Writing is a surprisingly slow process. We think of it as a direct line from brain to page, but it's not. It is a work of translation. Your abstract thought must be converted into specific words. Those words must be arranged into a coherent sentence. Then your brain has to send signals to your hand to form specific shapes on a page. Each step is a bottleneck.

This slowness creates a gap. And in that gap, the rest of your brain doesn't just wait patiently. It keeps working. It races ahead. This is where the spiral begins. The gap between the speed of thought and the speed of writing is a vacuum that overthinking loves to fill. You start judging the sentence you just wrote. You question the original idea. The act of documenting the thought interferes with the thought itself.

Think of it like trying to describe a waterfall with a leaky bucket. You can only capture a tiny fraction of the flow, and a lot gets lost along the way. The frustration comes from knowing how much you're missing.

Thinking at the Speed of Speech

Now consider talking. Speaking is much closer to the speed of thought. The path from idea to expression is far more direct. There is no manual transcription. You just think and talk. The words flow out at a natural pace.

This speed changes everything. It closes the gap where overthinking and self-doubt creep in. You don't have time to second guess your first sentence because you are already on your third. The goal shifts from careful composition to pure expression. You are not building a written record. You are simply thinking out loud.

This is why we talk things through with friends. We don't hand them a prepared essay. We explore ideas in real time, with all the ums, ahs, and weird tangents. It’s in that unfiltered flow that we often find clarity. Speaking your thoughts is a form of discovery.

Capturing Raw Ideas

Some of the most valuable thoughts are the most fragile. They are fleeting observations or strange connections that don't yet make sense. When you try to write them down, you’re forced to make them neat and tidy before their time. You have to put them in a box. But their most interesting quality is that they don't yet fit in a box.

Speaking lets you capture the thought in its raw, unprocessed state. You can record the idea with all its messiness intact. You can talk about why it feels important even if you don’t know why yet. You can preserve the questions and the uncertainty.

Later, you can listen back. You might find a brilliant idea buried in a ramble. Or you might realize the act of speaking was all you needed to understand it. The pressure to produce a perfect, finished entry disappears. The process itself becomes the point.

How to Begin

If you want to try this, the method is simple. Don't perform. Don't imagine an audience. You are just talking to yourself. The only rule is to not stop. If you get stuck, just say “I’m stuck.” Describe the feeling of being stuck. The goal is to let the momentum of your voice carry you past the mental blocks that writing creates.

Your first few attempts might feel strange. That’s fine. You're learning a new way to interact with your own thoughts. But soon you may find that it's the most natural way to journal. You are finally giving your brain a tool that can keep up with it.

When your thoughts feel like they are spiraling out of control, the solution may not be to try to slow them down. The solution may be to speed up your method of capturing them. Stop trying to use a pen to catch lightning.

To see how this feels in practice, click on the prompt below and try it for yourself.