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How to Solve Problems Before They Happen

Most of us are reactive. We wait for a problem to appear then we try to fix it. But there is a better way which is to walk through future scenarios out loud to find the weak points in your plans.

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Most of us live life reactively. A problem appears and we scramble to solve it. A deadline sneaks up on us. A project fails for a reason that seems obvious in hindsight. We spend our days putting out fires, rarely thinking about how the fires started in the first place.

This is the default way humans operate. Our brains are designed to respond to immediate threats and opportunities. Thinking about the distant future is hard work and often feels abstract. We make a plan and assume it will work because the path from A to B looks clear in our heads. But our minds are good at hiding the messy details. A plan that feels solid in the silence of your own head is often full of holes you cannot see.

The friction is in the translation from abstract thought to concrete reality. A silent plan can be fuzzy. You can gloss over the hard parts. You can imagine success without having to build the bridge to get there. But the moment you have to explain that plan to someone else, you are forced to make it real. You have to use words in a specific order. You have to connect your ideas in a logical sequence. And that is often where the plan falls apart.

But you do not need someone else to find the flaws in your thinking. You just need to speak.

The Prospective Hindsight Method

There is a powerful technique for this called a pre-mortem or prospective hindsight. The idea is simple. Instead of hoping for success, you assume failure. You imagine yourself in the future, after your plan has gone completely wrong. Then you tell the story of how it happened.

This sounds pessimistic but it is profoundly practical. By assuming failure from the start, you give yourself permission to be critical. It bypasses the natural optimism bias that makes us ignore risks. It turns you from a cheerleader for your own idea into a detective looking for clues.

Using your voice is the ideal way to do this. You do not need a team in a conference room. You just need a quiet space to think out loud. Start a new audio entry and begin with a simple premise.

Imagine it is six months from now. That new project at work I was so excited about has completely failed. It is over. Let me talk about what went wrong.

Then you just start talking. You tell the story of the disaster. Maybe the deadline was unrealistic from the start. Maybe a key team member was not fully on board. Maybe you underestimated the technical challenges. As you narrate the story of this hypothetical failure, the potential real-world problems will start to emerge. You will hear yourself say something and realize it is a genuine risk you had not considered.

Why Speaking Uncovers the Truth

This works for a few simple reasons. First, speaking is linear. You cannot talk about everything at once. You have to put one thought after another which forces you to build a narrative. This narrative structure is what reveals gaps in your logic. A plan might seem fine as a cloud of ideas but fall apart when laid out as a sequence of events.

Second, speaking exposes your assumptions. When you tell the story of your failed plan, you will hear your own lazy thinking. You might say “and then we just could not get enough customers” and that will hang in the air. Why could you not get customers? What was the plan for that? The act of saying it makes the weakness obvious in a way silent thought does not.

Third, it is a low stakes way to deal with high stakes problems. The failure is not real. You are just running a simulation. This allows you to explore worst case scenarios without the fear and anxiety that normally come with them. You are simply a storyteller recounting a fictional event. This detachment is what gives you clarity. Preparing for a difficult conversation is another version of this. By having the argument with yourself first, you can find your own weak points before you enter the real discussion. You can read more about that here https://journalofme.com/blog/best_way_win_argument_with_yourself_first.

A Tool for Proactive Thinking

You can apply this to almost anything. A new career path. A fitness goal. A difficult family conversation. A side project. Any area where you want to succeed is an area where you can benefit from imagining failure first.

Most of us walk into the future backward. We only see the problems after we have passed them. This method allows you to turn around and look forward. It helps you see the obstacles on the path ahead while you still have time to navigate around them.

It is a shift from being a victim of circumstances to being the architect of your own plans. You stop just hoping for the best and start preparing for the worst. Over time, you will find that fewer fires erupt in your life. Not because you have gotten luckier but because you have gotten better at seeing the sparks before they ignite.

Try this for a small upcoming decision in your own life.